“Beauty is the greatest seducer of man” –Paulo Coelho.
It can be thought of as a combination of qualities, such as confidence, poise, Joy, patience, truthfulness, kindness, persistence, and loyalty. That kind of beauty reaches far beyond physical beauty and makes a person shine from the inside as well as aesthetically.
In every man’s heart, there is a secret nerve that answers to the vibration of “Beauty” by Christopher Morley.
A strong man who has a heart he puts all their dreams. But the boundaries which he faces in his life are not able to make their dream true. For this, the bitterness is born day by day. A man who has a kind heart will be surrounded by all kinds of bitterness which is not good for society and his vitality. When a child sees the chaos in society at that time the kid doesn’t understand what is wrong or what is right. No one can guide the child’s mind with beautiful guidelines. That’s why they grow up with the sorrows of society. If a child grows up with this bitterness, one day when they become an adult their mind will be toxic and at that time their dream and sweetness of life are washing away the bitterness of life. Bitter roots are places in our hearts where resentment and unforgiveness have taken hold. As a result, the overflow of our lives is not the beautiful fruit of the Holy Spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, etc.). Instead, we exhibit the fruit of bitterness (anger, resentment, suspicion, and jealousy… just to name a few!)
A man who resides in the Holy Quran they become reduces all the bad paths from their life. In the Quran, we see many surahs which are energetic for human life. Allah does not charge a soul except that which is within its capacity. How many struggles or adversities have you overcome in life thus far? Remember the last thing you thought would destroy you or seemed insurmountable… but look here you are still standing. We think in isolation and believe the most recent problem is the greatest but the truth is all our troubles have been experienced by humanity before us. So when the Quran mentions “lay not upon us a burden like that which You laid upon those before us”, we must realize that these problems are not new, they have been handled and solved by those before us we just have to be creative and search for the solutions instead of being anxious and afraid.
The way to let go of bitterness toward others is to think of the many positive qualities and experiences you’ve had with them.
Your ex is not an evil person; your betrayed friend is not bad person, they just weren’t the best person for you.
Instead of being stuck on their flaws and wrongdoings, allow the power of forgiveness to overlook what they’ve ‘done’ to you. Look at what good they’ve done, how much they’ve helped you be a better person, and the happy times you had together.
Remind yourself of their redeeming qualities. See their light. What I’ve learned is that no relationship is perfect, and most relationships look good from the outside. Comparing your relationship to others isn’t very constructive.
Once again, transform bitterness toward others to gratefulness that others have found love in their lives. If others have found love, let that be a message of hope and possibility for you.
We are each on our journeys to better understand ourselves and live better. Our journey is independent of anyone else’s.
The journey of self-discovery and personal growth is a remarkable one. As we guide through the complicatedness of life, we often undergo moments that challenge our inner strength and stability. But let us recall that we are not alone in this goal. Everywhere in history, countless people have faced similar problems and difficulties, and by pulling provocation from their knowledge, we can find the power to overcome our barriers.
In our exploration of happiness and satisfaction, it is vital to release the bitterness that reflects upon us. Rather than waiting on the weaknesses and misdeeds of others, let us shift our focus to the positive qualities and cherished memories we shared with them. By embracing forgiveness and choosing to see the light within them, we free ourselves from the burden of bitterness.
Through the pain of heartbreak and loss, we sow the seeds of true love. These experiences, though painful, serve as motivations for personal growth and pave the way for a deeper understanding of ourselves. While it may take time, have a belief that your day will come, and when it does, you will find a love that is genuine and fulfilling.
Remember, life is a journey of consistent growth and discovery. Welcome the challenges, seek creative solutions, and never lose hope. By nurturing a mindset of gratitude and focusing on the beauty of life, we can flush away the bitterness that endangers us to surpass our happiness. Let us continue our pursuit of love and self-fulfillment with unwavering judgment and an open heart.
Keep shining, for your light will guide you toward the love and happiness you deserve.
For more blogs click here
Writer,
Morsheda Begum
Intern, Content Writing Department,
YSSE